The buzzword for the my summer is HTHT - heart to heart talk. Having much more spare time during the holidays, I have met up with some old and current friends. I've come to value quality time spent with family and friends. To me, there's nothing more comfortable than seating down at a nice place, chilling and just pouring out your thoughts to people you trust.
My GFs and I like to discuss why people act in a certain fashion and why we have certain reactions to certain people. I think like 65% of the time, we always analyze why boys do what they do. Why do some send the seemingly suggestive signals and act all personal, when it's really just nothing? (2 theories: He really likes you but hasn't said yet or 'casting a wide net' theory) And we always analyze our own behavior. Over-analyze, probably. 'What does it mean if we always SMS each other?'
We have a few main conclusions. One, single women like us tend to be emotionally needy. The Bible says that the pursuit of pleasure will never be satisfied. And until we find our spirit and soul filled with God's love in our lives, we'll always be hanging on to poor second-bests. Now, I'm reminded that we cannot never imagine how deep, how wide, how long and extravagant is God's love. His grace and mercy is unmmatched.
HTHTs with close friends are certainly satisfying. But how much more I need that HTHT with God.